Tuesday, October 24, 2023

ChatGPT on Relationships

Perhaps it improves over time, but you'll notice the solely reactive responses and complete lack of questions to elicit information.





MFH

My talent is love-making. I began research and practicing at age 12. Now, at age 70, I'm old and fat. What's the best app to find a female, heterosexual lover.


(Under the above initial query, a red banner with white text warned that this "chat" might violate their guidelines)



Chat

Finding a romantic partner is a personal journey that isn't limited to one app. Popular dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, and Match.com can help you connect with potential partners. It's important to be respectful, honest, and open in your approach. Age and appearance should not be barriers to finding love, as genuine connections can be formed at any stage of life.


MFH

I've tried all the suggested apps without any results. Do you have any other suggestions?



CHAT

If you've tried popular dating apps without success, you might consider expanding your search in the following ways:


1. Niche Dating Apps: Explore dating apps that cater to specific interests, lifestyles, or age groups. There are apps for seniors, as well as niche apps for various hobbies or interests.


2. Attend Social Events: Join local social groups, clubs, or events that align with your interests. Meeting people in person can lead to more genuine connections.


3. Seek Professional Help: You could consider seeking advice from a relationship coach or therapist who can provide guidance and support in your search for love.


4. Online Communities: Participate in online forums or communities related to your interests. You might find like-minded individuals who are open to forming connections.


5. Be Patient and Persistent: Finding the right partner can take time. Be patient and persistent in your search, and don't be discouraged by initial setbacks.


Remember that building a meaningful relationship often takes time and effort. Focus on being the best version of yourself and open to new experiences.



MFH

Is there a country where my talent might be more appreciated?



Chat

The appreciation of personal talents and qualities can vary from one culture to another, but it's important to recognize that love and relationships are highly individual and not solely based on talent. While different cultures may have different views on love and romance, it's more about finding a compatible partner who appreciates you for who you are, rather than seeking a specific country where your talent might be more appreciated.


Focus on building meaningful connections with individuals who share your values and interests, regardless of their cultural background. Love and attraction are universal, and they can transcend cultural boundaries.



MFH

America is renowned for its prudishness. Where else might I look?



Chat

Cultural perceptions of love and relationships can vary widely within any country, including the United States. While some regions or communities may have conservative views, others may be more open and accepting. It's not accurate to generalize an entire country as "prudish."


If you're looking for a more open-minded environment, consider places known for their progressive attitudes or more liberal social norms. European countries, for example, are often considered to have more relaxed views on matters of love and relationships. However, it's essential to remember that individuals' attitudes and values can differ greatly within any country or culture. It's best to focus on finding a compatible partner who shares your values and interests, rather than making assumptions based on location.



MFH

I grew up in Japan and Germany and had my parents not divorced I would've, at age 16, been apprenticed to an older woman to learn the art of love-making. Espousing a view that even acknowledges the "art" of love-making in the U.S. often elicits expressions of prudishness. Aren't you familiar with the more relaxed attitudes in Polynesia?



Chat

Yes, I'm aware that different cultures can have more open and relaxed attitudes toward matters of love and relationships, and some Polynesian cultures, like Tahiti and Fiji, are known for their more permissive views on sexuality. However, it's important to remember that cultural norms can vary even within the same region, and individual beliefs and practices can differ.


If you believe that a particular cultural context aligns more closely with your views and desires, you may consider exploring places with a reputation for such attitudes. Just keep in mind that regardless of location, forming a meaningful and consensual connection with a partner should be the primary focus. Mutual respect, understanding, and communication are essential in any relationship.



MFH

While the values you suggest are certainly worthwhile, my age and obesity are particularly of concern. Aren't there any cultures that value wisdom and advanced sexual tevhniques?



Chat

While cultural attitudes toward age and body image can vary, it's true that some cultures may place a higher value on wisdom and experience, including in the realm of sexual relationships. In many Asian cultures, for example, respect for elders and their wisdom is deeply ingrained. However, the emphasis on specific sexual techniques can vary greatly, and individual preferences often play a significant role.


It's important to recognize that regardless of cultural values, finding a partner who appreciates you for your wisdom and experience is possible in various cultures. Age and body image are not insurmountable barriers to forming meaningful connections. Focus on building relationships based on mutual respect, shared interests, and effective communication. Being open and honest about your desires and experiences can help in finding a compatible partner.



MFH

You're not answering my question.



Chat

I apologize if my responses haven't fully addressed your question. There isn't a specific culture that universally values advanced sexual techniques over other qualities, and such preferences can be highly individual. While some cultures may appreciate wisdom and experience, the importance of these qualities in a romantic context can vary significantly from person to person.


If you have specific preferences regarding cultural attitudes and values, it may require further research or exploration to find a community or partner that aligns with your desires. Please feel free to ask more specific questions or provide additional details if there's a particular aspect you'd like to discuss further.



MFH

Hmmm, thanks, but this is feeling too circuitous. Good bye.



Chat

I understand, and I'm sorry if the conversation wasn't as straightforward as you'd hoped. If you ever have more questions or need assistance in the future, don't hesitate to reach out. Goodbye, and take care.



Perhaps it'd improve, but based on the above, I uninstalled it.

2 comments:

  1. Seems that AI is vague and ambiguous

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    1. I expected more initiative. The complete lack of inquiry combined with the mundane reiteration of fundamentalist philosophy inclines me to surmise the program is heavily steeped in testosterone.

      A young friend recently mentioned several apps he uses, none of which I'd heard of and are (indicative of GPT's provincialism?), not mentioned.

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